Many women don't talk to their partners because they're afraid of the reaction or what they'll think if they reveal what they really want in bed:
"She's too outgoing",
"where and with whom is she learning this",
Or even bring certain male insecurities into the relationship:
"I don't satisfy her sexually" and so on.
But it's important for the couple to maintain a dialog about their preferences and desires, because only then will intimacy and pleasure be full and satisfying.
Seek to broaden your communication and sexual repertoire, and your relationship will only grow stronger. "Some couples find a way to break the ice and become uninhibited by using virtual sex and watching pornography, thus increasing sexual spontaneity and creativity," says Martha Mejía, psychologist and couple's therapist.
- More kisses and caresses. Women's expectations are more focused on romantic sensations. The sexual approach should be accompanied by kisses and caresses all over the body, from head to toe, not centered on the same part. They want to be appreciated in their erogenous zones: behind the ear, neck, back, buttocks, legs... And their partner doesn't "walk around" their body in the way they expect. Married women especially need kisses, since kissing passionately and constantly keeps the flame of the first years of marriage burning.
- Oral sex. Studies have found that 80% of women enjoy receiving oral sex and some partners don't ask, thinking it's uncomfortable for them. Women often experience more pleasure from oral sex than from penetration. This is something that many keep quiet out of shame or fear of their partner's reaction.
- Toys and erotic movies. Women need to be stimulated a lot before sexual intercourse and their partners need to invest a lot in foreplay.
For this reason, many women want to offer sex toys, but some men feel threatened, for example, by a vibrator:
"Am I not enough for you?".
"I'm not good enough for you?"
"Do you need an object to feel pleasure?".
It has recently been shown that they are consumers of erotic films that inspire and stimulate. And that vibrators and arousal gels are excellent resources for couples to increase their complicity, because talking about sex and the couple's preferences strengthens and makes the relationship healthier.
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